Change is hard.
You know you are struggling. You know life shouldn’t be this hard. You know something is wrong, but you can’t figure out what so you assume it is you.
I spent years, wandering around, going to therapy, taking psychiatric medications, and trying to figure out what was wrong with me.
Being raised by narcissists, I was convinced I was the problem. And yes, I had problems, but they didn’t begin with me. That revelation changed my entire life.
This is a healing community.
My goal, with this blog, is to help others who are wandering in the dark, trying to find the Truth. I will be providing information about narcissists, borderlines, and antisocials and the effects of being raised by them. I will describe the symptoms you may be struggling with as a result of this parenting. I will also be posting ideas for healing and building your best life. This community is not for the personality disordered themselves.
I’m a licensed therapist - and a survivor.
There is a lot of information about narcissism and about healing. Much of it comes from lay people. Some comes from professionals. Some of it is helpful. Some of it is misguided or even wrong. Some is downright harmful.
I have the benefit of personal experience of being raised by a narcissist and a psychopath (someone with antisocial personality disorder). I have also been professionally trained in personality disorders and specialize in treating their survivors.
Let me show you the path towards a better life.